As always, I’m thinking. Out of nowhere, I started contemplating the characteristics of a God fearing man. I’m not sure why. Who knows how our minds work, right? Anyway, this line of thought led me to reflect on the very specific men that God has placed in my life through the years.
Don’t worry. I won’t burden you all about my “business” – just some of it. :)
The most basic of the characteristics of a God-fearing man is being a man after God’s own heart.
In my mind, the characteristics of a God fearing man are associated with a man always striving to live in accordance with the Lord’s teachings and values.
This guy is not a “Sunday” Christian who looks the part a few hours of the week and lives like the devil the rest of the week.
No, a God-fearing man is a guy who is enraptured by God and seeks to be like Him in every area of his life.
Godly Men Still Exist!
I have grown weary of women saying, “All the good men are gone,” or that no good, Christian men are left.
That’s foolish talk.
As long as the rapture has not taken place when you read this, there are still Godly men who embody the characteristics of a God fearing man!
Maybe he has not found you yet, but let me tell you, he is out there somewhere.
Great Covers; Bad books
Be careful about judging a book by its cover, Christian Sister.
In a world that often cares too much about appearances, it’s easy to get caught up in how a man looks on the outside.
I’ve made that mistake time and time again; of course, I was much younger, which qualifies me to share my thoughts. :)
Looks can be incredibly deceiving.
A guy can totally look the “part” only to be a lecherous, worldly man under the service.
This is why the real value lies in what’s on the inside.
A guy committed to his Christian faith cannot be reduced to height, style, or fitness.
Why? Because he is so much more.
Focusing on outer appearance can cause you to overlook a man’s true worth.
I know it sounds incredibly old-fashioned.
But what truly matters is his heart, his beliefs, and what he does day by day.
Some men have great looks but rotten, stinky, foul hearts. That is what I mean by a great “cover”, but a bad “book.”
Don’t believe me? Watch three episodes of the series “For Her Man.”
Seriously… Character Matters
Sure, physical attraction matters, but it shouldn’t overshadow what makes a relationship last: honesty, kindness, loyalty, and a solid spiritual base.
These are the characteristics of a God-fearing man!
Proverbs 31:30 captures it totally!
It says, “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” The same goes for guys.
More characteristics of a God fearing man
A deep commitment to prayer is crucial for a Godly man.
A good man seeks God’s guidance in every aspect of life and considers what scripture says about any given situation.
If a man prays often, he is more likely to embody the characteristics of a Godly man.
It’s true for us all that prayer is a powerful tool for reflection and spiritual growth.
Through regular communication with the Lord Jesus, a God fearing man cultivates virtues such as patience, kindness, and humility, allowing these traits to flourish within him.
This heartfelt dedication to prayer not only deepens his faith but also empowers him to face life’s challenges with both grace and wisdom.
What an amazing man!
Furthermore, by being in tune with his Christian disciplines, he influences those around him.
He encourages others to seek the same path of Christian righteousness and integrity.
Ultimately, consistent prayer transforms his heart and mind, guiding him toward a life.
For sure, prayer is a key characteristic of a Godly guy!
A God-fearing man in a relationship
When you meet a new man, ask yourself: How devoted is he to God?
Does he fear the Lord?
Also, examine how he treats others – especially his mom.
A man who is rude to others will be rude to you.
Leadership Abilities
Secondly, you always want to consider his ability to lead with wisdom.
Sometimes, a man won’t be a good leader of his home if he can’t make a solid decision about the smaller, less significant things in life.
You do not want a wishy-washy man.
A Godly man is a leader of himself.
Years ago, I told a group of teenagers that they could never expect to be any type of leader until they learned to “lead” and manage themselves.
That is why one of the key characteristics of a God fearing man is a guy who takes full responsibility for his actions.
One indicator of this is that he takes responsibility for his actions. He does not play the blame game or pass responsibility to someone else. He is reliable and dependable. This means a Godly characteristic is a man of Godly leadership.
Loving and Sweet
Thirdly, does he walk in Christian love with everyone?
Not just to you, but he also demonstrates kindness, compassion, and humility in interactions with family, friends, and even strangers.
If so, that is the kind of love that really shapes how strong a romantic relationship can be – Christian love.
For a relationship built on Christian faith, trust, and real companionship, it is best to pick a partner based on their Godly character instead of just their appearance.
That’s what I think.
No, that is what I know.
A Man of Integrity
Another one of the characteristics of a God fearing man is he exhibits moral integrity.
This means he doesn’t try to compromise in any area of his life.
He is honest and hard-working at work. Around his family, he is the same man who shows up at church on Sundays.
His hands do not go where they should not on a woman because he controls His thoughts.
He understands what Jesus said in Matthew 5: 27-28 and lives by it:
27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.“
You can feel safe around a man who has the characteristics of a God fearing man because he makes you feel safe.
The choices he makes are those that honor not only himself but also his Christian faith.
Spiritually Mature
Emotional and mental maturity is a key characteristic of a God-fearing man.
I think a man can fake being a good Christian guy, but eventually, he will start exhibiting carnal, childish behaviors.
They’ll spring up faster than a whack-a-mole at an over-caffeinated kid’s birthday party!
A Godly man is a grown-up and acts like one.
Because of His relationship with the Lord, He can handle challenges with wisdom, patience, and self-control.
He can handle you saying “no” when his body wants to say “yes.”
Do you know what I mean?
This is one of the things I love most about my husband. He is mature emotionally and spiritually.
Yes, a spiritually and emotionally mature man takes full responsibility for his actions – the good and the bad.
He also communicates openly and honestly. I remember years ago, I dated another Godly man, and he shared with me that while he wanted to be with me, there was a woman over whom he was struggling.
I appreciated that honesty. At first, I didn’t. I must be honest about that!
Still, his honesty and willingness to pray over the situation fostered a sense of trust. I trusted him to tell me the truth; as far as I know, he always did.
A spiritually immature Christian man
On the other hand, you also have the opposite of a Godly man.
Immaturity can manifest in many ways in that type of guy.
Let me give some examples – just to drive home the value of a Godly man.
Such as avoiding accountability, reacting impulsively in anger, refusing to commit, or neglecting emotional intimacy.
For example, an immature man may shut down or give the silent treatment instead of discussing conflicts.
Or, he may make excuses for his mistakes instead of owning up to them.
Maybe he will choose to prioritize his own desires over your well-being.
Look, true maturity is demonstrated when a man seeks personal, spiritual, and emotional growth. That’s what you want!
Back to what we want – a good Christian man.
Forgiving
Nothing is more foolish than a man who holds a grudge.
I cannot abide a pouting man!
When a man cannot move past disappointment or challenges, he shackles himself to the burdens of resentment.
He becomes heavy and bitter.
The sad part is that he robs himself of the joy of forgiveness.
Sadly, that isn’t the worst part. In my opinion, an unforgiving man casts a dark shadow on everyone else in the house or relationship.
On the other hand, a man who knows how to let go of things opens the door to healing and peace in the relationship.
When he does, he models Godly behavior for you.
This type of man can actually teach the woman he loves how to forgive and mature in the Lord.
My husband has done that for me in one area of my life.
Trust me, we had our cold wars at the beginning of our marriage, just like everyone else!
The best lessons are those people teach with their lives.
A man of God has the propensity to teach so many because he is the priest of his home.
He can’t teach you much if he is not married to you. Living with a person who is committed to marriage shows you who he is—not dating.
Bonus: Don’t delude yourself into thinking a man is a mature Christian if he’s not anchored in a solid church. It’s like McDonald’s puffing their chest about having the best burger while they don’t even cook ’em!
That’s all for now.
If you are a single Christian woman, take it from this old lady: ignore the foolish men who may come your way.
Instead, seek out a rare man who embodies the characteristics of a God-fearing man.
Remember, he can help you grow spiritually and emotionally.
I believe he will be more likely to support your dreams and walk alongside you through life’s challenges with faith and commitment. It’s built into him if the Holy Spirit is active inside him.
Don’t settle.
Characteristics of a Godly man Bible verses
Hebrews 10:25 – He Attends Church
“Not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”
John 13:34-35 – One of the key characteristics of a God fearing man is that he is loving to the world!
“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
Galatians 6:10 – He is kind.
“So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.”
1 Peter 3:9 – A God fearing man is forgiving.
“Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing.”
Also, be sure to read my post on Godly characteristics of a Godly woman.
Thank you for this piece. It has blessed me. Praise the Lord!