An encouraging note to a friend

Christian Encouragement

Imagine a ship on the sea that begins to slow down because the wind has grown too weak to propel it. You’ve seen it in old movies, one lonely ship rocking to and fro in the vast blue-gray ocean – not totally stagnant, but not progressing either. That’s the way life can make us feel at times. We can feel like we’re just floating. Just going through the motions. Sometimes, our friends can feel that way. That is when an encouraging note to a friend can help so much. It can breathe fresh life when they feel deflated and empty.

Before I reveal my thoughts of an encouraging note to a friend, let’s explore the topic so you will know just what to write and why.

What causes us to feel that way and need Christian encouragement?

So many things. It could be the repeated sucker punches from the enemy, the spiritual attacks, and the dumb mistakes we make on our own. They make us feel powerless and stalled, like that ship not moving forward or backward. No fun.

I’d be totally lying if I said I never felt that way.

Troubles, hindrances, and hard times plague us all – it’s part of the journey. Read my post on scriptures for the hard times we all experience that cause us to need Christian encouragement from time to time.

But God, in His glorious compassion, always meets us where we are and sends armed forces to rescue us.

It may come from the personal insight you get from scripture.

Or your pastor will deliver a fresh, “right now” word for just you.

Other times, it comes fresh from a fellow Christian soldier – another Christian right in the trenches of life with you.

Boom! That’s what I want to focus on. That’s when an encouraging note can give you the strength to get through the day.

encouraging note to a friend

Let me tell you my story and how an encouraging note to a friend helped me.

As my mom and I navigated the turbulent waters of Alzheimer’s and physical illness, cards and notes from church members and friends gave me the encouragement I needed to get through each and every day.

I wasn’t sure I’d make it some days, but then something would come in the mail. When I tell you those cards were like spiritual B vitamins, I’m not kidding.

My Bible was stuffed with them – then I figured out I had to save them somewhere else. Sister Phyllis and Sister Sandra will forever keep me in my heart because of their consistency and determination to encourage me.

He comforts us every time we have trouble so that when others have trouble, we can comfort them with the same comfort God gives us. We share in the many sufferings of Christ. In the same way, much comfort comes to us through Christ.

2 Corinthians 1:4-6 ERV

A note is a perfect comfort mechanism. It doesn’t require two-way conversation. It’s like a Holy Ghost powered drive by of love and peace.

Feel free to copy and paste.

Hey [Friend’s Name],

I just wanted to reach out and remind you that even in the midst of life’s storms, you are never alone.

The Bible tells us in Psalm 34:18 that “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” So, whenever you feel overwhelmed or burdened, know that God’s comforting presence is right there beside you, ready to wrap you in His arms of love and peace.

Remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 11:28-30: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Let these words sink deep into your heart, knowing that Jesus invites you to find solace and comfort in Him.

I’m here for you, friend, and so is our Heavenly Father. Lean on His promises, and find strength in His everlasting love.

Sending you prayers and hugs,



Christian encouragement and strength

Encouragement is important for Christians. It helps us strengthen our faith, especially when we face challenges and difficulties in our spiritual journey. Encouragement can lift our spirits, give us hope, and strengthen us to keep going…especially when we feel like that ship that is sailing without any purpose of stamina.

Encouragement reminds us that we are not alone in our faith.

As believers, we are part of a community bound together by the love of Christ. When others encourage us, it reminds us that we are supported and valued. This sense of belonging strengthens us and helps us face challenges with courage.

Furthermore, when we receive encouragement from other Christians, it helps us redirect our focus on God’s promises to us. Sometimes, life can become overwhelming, and we may start to doubt or fear. However, with the help of encouragement, we are reminded of God’s faithfulness, how He always provides for us, and His constant, unwavering love for us. This reminder renews our trust in Him and reinforces our belief that He is by our side, guiding us through every step of our journey.

In addition, encouragement strengthens our resolve to be a source of hope and inspiration for others. Just as we benefit from the encouragement we receive, we have the opportunity to uplift and strengthen our fellow believers. Through our own words of affirmation, acts of kindness, and prayers, we can offer support and encouragement to those in need. In doing so, we become vessels of God’s love, spreading His light and positively impacting the lives of those around us.

encouraging words to a friend

Hey [Friend’s Name],

I know things might feel tough right now, but I want you to know that you’re stronger than you think. Remember, God doesn’t give us challenges that we can’t handle.

In fact, He’s right there beside you, empowering you with His strength and courage every step of the way.

I love the reminder in Isaiah 41:10: “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Isn’t that amazing? God promises to give us the strength we need to face whatever comes our way.

So, take a deep breath, my friend, and trust in His promise. You’ve got this, and I’m cheering you on every step of the way. If you ever need someone to talk to or a shoulder to lean on, I’m here for you.

Keep shining bright!

[Your Name]

Hey [Friend’s Name],

I just wanted to remind you that feeling weak doesn’t make you any less amazing. We all have moments when we feel like we’re running on empty, but that doesn’t mean we’re not strong. In fact, it takes a lot of courage to admit when we’re not feeling our best.

You’re incredibly resilient, and even on your toughest days, you continue to inspire those around you with your kindness and compassion. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help when you need it. True strength isn’t about going it alone; it’s about reaching out and leaning on the people who care about you.

You’re not alone in this, my friend. I’m here to support you every step of the way, whether you need a listening ear, a shoulder to lean on, or just someone to remind you of how amazing you truly are.

Take care of yourself, and remember that you are loved and valued.

[Your Name]

Hey [Friend’s Name],

I know this is a really tough time for you, but I want you to know that you’re not alone.

You are incredibly strong and resilient, and while it might not feel like it right now, I truly believe that you will come out of this even stronger than before. Use this time to focus on yourself, to rediscover the things that make you happy, and to surround yourself with people who love and support you.

Remember, this is just one chapter in your story, and it’s not the end. The right person is out there for you, and when the time is right, you’ll find each other.

In the meantime, be gentle with yourself and take things one day at a time. I’m here for you whenever you need a friend to lean on or a shoulder to cry on.

You’ve got this, my friend. I believe in you.

[Your Name]

Hey [Friend’s Name],

I can’t even begin to imagine the depth of pain you’re feeling right now, but I want you to know that you’re not alone. Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things we go through in life, and it’s okay to feel all the emotions that come with it.

In this time of grief, I want to remind you of the love and memories you shared with your loved one. Those moments are precious and will always live on in your heart. While they may no longer be with us physically, their spirit and the impact they had on your life will continue to shine brightly.

Take things one day at a time, my friend. Lean on your loved ones for support, and don’t be afraid to seek professional help if you need it. Healing takes time, and it’s okay to give yourself the space and grace to grieve in your own way.

Know that I’m here for you, now and always. Sending you love, strength, and comforting thoughts during this difficult time.

With deepest sympathy,

[Your Name]

Hi [Friend’s Name],

I just wanted to take a moment to remind you of how incredibly loved you are by God. In those moments when life feels heavy and doubts creep in, remember that you are never alone.

God is always with you, guiding you, and cheering you on every step of the way.

No matter what challenges you may be facing, have faith that God has a beautiful plan for your life. His love knows no bounds, and He has equipped you with everything you need to overcome any obstacle that comes your way.

Keep your head up, friend, and keep trusting in His unfailing love. You are stronger than you know, and with God by your side, there’s nothing you can’t handle.

Sending you lots of love, prayers, and encouragement,

Encouraging fellow Christians is a wonderful way to be a blessing to them.

Just as we need to receive Christian encouragement, we also need to give it freely. Here are five ways to encourage other Christians:

  1. Prayer Support:
  • Offer to pray for and with them. Share your own prayer requests and ask about theirs. Knowing that someone is interceding for them can provide comfort and strength.
  1. Acts of Kindness:
  • Show kindness through small gestures. Acts of service, such as helping with chores, providing a meal during a challenging time, or offering a helping hand, can speak volumes about your care and support.
  1. Scripture Sharing:
  • Share relevant and uplifting Bible verses. Sometimes, a timely and encouraging scripture can provide comfort and guidance. Consider sending a daily or weekly verse to remind them of God’s promises.
  1. Attend Church Activities Together:
  • Participate in church events or activities together. Whether it’s a Bible study, fellowship group, or community service project, engaging in shared activities fosters a sense of belonging and connection.
  1. Listen and Offer a Non-Judgmental Ear:
  • Sometimes, people just need someone to listen. Be a compassionate listener without passing judgment. Allow them to share their thoughts, feelings, and struggles, and offer support without immediately trying to provide solutions. Be the arms that hold them and give them comfort.

Remember that encouragement can come in various forms, and the key is to be genuine, compassionate, and understanding of the unique needs and challenges that others may be facing.

Christian encouragement comes through reading your Bible, through listening to and participating in worship, and maybe through the person-to-person Christian encouragement of other Christians.

How to know what to do when someone is hurting

Supporting someone going through a difficult time requires understanding, care, and offering help. But sometimes you do not know what to do to help. Here is what helps me. I appreciate people who:

  1. Listen Actively:
  • Allow the person to share their thoughts and feelings without interruption. Active listening involves giving your full attention, making eye contact, and providing verbal and non-verbal cues to show your engagement.
  1. Ask for Specific Needs:
  • Inquire about specific ways you can assist. Sometimes, people may be hesitant to ask for help directly. By offering specific forms of support, you show that you genuinely want to help.
  1. Provide Emotional Support:
  • Offer emotional support by expressing empathy and understanding. Let them know that you are there for them and that their feelings are valid. Sometimes, a comforting presence is more valuable than any specific action.
  1. Help with Practical Tasks:
  • If practical tasks need attention, such as running errands, preparing meals, or taking care of responsibilities, offer your assistance. This can alleviate some of the stress they may be experiencing.
  1. Respect Their Wishes:
  • Respect the person’s autonomy and decision-making process. While offering help is important, respecting their wishes and boundaries is equally crucial. Not everyone may be comfortable accepting certain forms of assistance.
  1. Educate Yourself:
  • If the trial is legal in nature, take the time to educate yourself about the process. This can help you better understand what the person is going through and allow you to provide more informed support.
  1. Be Available:
  • Make yourself available for conversations or activities. Sometimes, individuals going through a trial may need a friend to talk to or a distraction from their stress.
  1. Encourage Professional Support:
  • Encourage them to seek professional help if needed. This could include counseling, legal advice, or other forms of professional assistance, depending on the nature of the trial.

Remember that everyone is unique and has their own preferences and needs when seeking support. So, it’s crucial to have open communication, show respect for their boundaries, and provide assistance that is tailored specifically to the individual going through a challenging time.

That way, your Christian encouragement can be meaningful and not bothersome.

The Power of Christian encouragement is there for you to give and to receive. Whatever side of it you are on is easy to miss, so look for it. Expect it.

I love you, Christian Lady! ᕕ༼✪ل͜✪༽ᕗ

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Sample encouraging note to a friend

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